‘He’d have to have good facial features, particularly nice eyes and, to seal the deal, a wide bum and thick legs to carry him around.’ Heidi says it is the dichotomy of soft and strong she finds so titillating.‘Fat men are big compared to me and yet there’s a vulnerability to them because they’re not falling in line with societal standards.you are morbidly obese yourself) you are leaving out of the equation, your situation does not compute. I find it hard to believe that there is not one chubby man in the area you live that you are attracted to. Even in the very small town I live in there are more than one adorable chubby men that one could chase if they wanted, they are not for me but I try not to date since I've been married almost 8 years. Chubby white guys too good for a black woman or something? Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. Over ,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum.
They think big guys are just so much more attractive to them than skinny guys.
As I went to click the “block” button, I realized something.
This guy was carefully perusing my photos and posts, but Isn’t it fascinating how men love to divulge their attraction to big women when hidden behind the veil anonymity?
Of course these men expected me to fall all over myself because they were giving me attention, but when I’d ask them to reveal their identities and send me a photo… the “come hook up with me in my dorm room but don’t talk to me in public” dudes… Its hard enough maintaining confidence as a big girl without having to deal with your insecurities about your attraction to me. as much as I want all closet chubby chasers to go away, I can’t ignore the role that Plus Size Princesses play in making the “Jamal Jamal’s” of the world think its okay to keep us as a dirty little secret.
I am so sick and tired of men who are passionate about their “love for big women” but ashamed for anyone to know about it. Telling a girl she’s pretty while refusing to be seen with her in public is a form of body shaming. It’s up to us as big women not to settle for the guy who only wants to sleep with us but wont introduce us to his friends.
‘On a purely sexual level, I don’t find slender bodies very inviting.