I know I am being sneaky/snoopy by checking up on him to see how often her goes on the site (and he goes on often! It’s not like I’d call this guy my boyfriend already, I know it’s still early… Author’s note: I have expanded the content of this article since it’s original post (as I do from time to time).
Right off the top, you mentioned that you and he have agreed to be exclusive.It’s reasonable to interpret that as meaning you’ve agreed to not date anyone or sleep with anyone else, but I want to ask: when you agreed to be exclusive, how did this come about?How clear was his side of the agreement to being committed?That includes taking down all dating profiles in good faith to see where the relationship will go. It would be one thing if someone in a relationship was on all of the time. Many people are finding love on social media, but Tinder is a dating (and even known as a hookup) app.The moment you think someone’s cheating or looking elsewhere is the moment you realize something isn’t right. If you’re in a relationship and someone is active on a dating app, guess what? I don’t care about the percentages, it’s wrong, period.Everything seemed good, except he was back on the dating site.